One of the biggest misconceptions about attraction, and one of the biggest fears men feel, is that their looks won’t attract women.
Feeling too ‘ugly’ to be of interest for beautiful women can take all kinds of shapes and forms, but each of these insecurities needs to be addressed. So, whether you think you’re too old, too fat or you worry about being too short, read on and find about some of the key myths of attraction.
If you don’t you may, needlessly, continue to rob yourself of the opportunity to meet the woman, or women, of your dreams. Are you ready to smash some of the myths holding you back?
- Myth- Women Are Only Interested In Good Looking Men
Look around you, anywhere you go. Isn’t it clear that there are super attractive women, dating all kinds of guys? Yet, this is one of the most powerful myths, stopping men from even attempting to meet and seduce beautiful women.
What women tend to find more important is the presentation of what you’ve got to work with. In other words, it’s more important that you look good, than be good looking. Good grooming and presentation can make any man more attractive to women, no matter what.
A man that can take care of himself, and takes an interest in presenting himself well, will capture more attention from women, as it reflects how they think they will be treated. An unkempt appearance suggests your attitude towards women will be sloppy.
- Myth- Women Think The Same Way Men Do
It’s easy to think that the rest of the world looks at things from your perspectives. But think about it, even your closest friends don’t view things the way you do, so why expect women to see things your way?
Men tend to make quite clear assessments of women, based on how they look. So, it’s natural to assume that women do the same, right?
Thankfully for all of us, this is not the case. Women tend to make far more in depth assessments of the attractiveness of men. While they will take into account how attractive a man is, it’s usually part of a bigger score card.
If you’re confident, witty and good at what you do, then these are check marks in your favor on the score card. So, if you feel your looks are lacking you may be losing out on confidence, which would otherwise work in your favor.
Overall, women are looking to establish how a man makes them feel, as a complete package, so if you can tick a lot of boxes, you’re doing well. You don’t have to tick them all.
- Myth- Women Can Sense Our Insecurities
When we are insecure about things, it’s tempting to assume that everyone else can spot them, from a mile away, but that’s not true. When it comes to meeting attractive women, we think they can read them before we approach.
This is not true, your concerns and insecurities are yours and yours alone, until you make them clear to the rest of the world. Now, if you want the best success with women, you’re going to want to work on those insecurities.
However, you shouldn’t assume they’re out there for everyone to see, letting it get in the way of approaching beautiful women.
One thing is certain however, insecurities are always unattractive.
Conclusion
Like many of the barriers we put in place, that stop us from meeting and approaching attractive women these myths we create are unnecessary. It all seems quite simple when it’s pointed out plainly, but I struggled with this stuff for years.
How did I change the course of things? I checked out the Art Of Approaching Women where I learned to overcome the things that held me back from dating hot women. If you’re not happy with your technique, in approaching women, I suggest you check it out, too.
Start enjoying the awesomeness of meeting women, today!
