In this article, I want to take a look at some of the fundamentals of approaching women. With these basic tips, and a few secrets, you’ll be able to start the journey towards effective dating and seduction.
This is the stuff you need to know, if you don’t want to keep on missing out on the beautiful women you want to approach. Most importantly, we’ll be looking at a mistake that shy, nice guys make all the time. A mistake that leads to the feeling that assholes get all the women!
It’s All About How You Make Her Feel
Seducing a woman is all about the way your attention makes her feel. So, the most important things are your actions, your behavior and your personality. These are the things that will allow you to attract women, whether you’re a successful business guy, or a college freshman.
The biggest mistake, that men approaching women make, is to act nice and pretend they’re not interested in having sex with them. This seems like a sensible approach, especially for shy guys, but it won’t make an attractive woman feel the emotional response she needs, to be seduced. Playing nice won’t make her feel desired.
If you want a woman to know you’re interested, and make her feel desired, you’re going to have to flirt with her, so that it’s clear how you feel. You need to make it clear that you’re interested, so that she can start to feel the emotions of attraction, which will lead to sex.
Why Being ‘Nice’ Doesn’t Work
Being nice doesn’t work, but that’s not an invitation to be an asshole, when you approach women. Just don’t try to be a woman’s friend, if you want to have sex with her. ‘Nice’ is how women treat their friends, so it’s bound to be confusing.
If you try to be their friends, most women will think one of these two things:
- You can’t man up and approach her , or;
- You don’t see her in ‘that way’
So, you have to flirt with women, to avoid them thinking you lack the stones or inclination to approach a beautiful woman. You have to make things clear, if you don’t want a woman to think you’re not interested, sexually. And, it’s usually fear of rejection that makes men act in these ways.
Overcoming that fear of rejection is the key to being comfortable in approaching women. If you’re worried about the emotional impact of being rejected, you are likely to go into ‘nice’ mode.
It’s easy to worry about being rejected, but realizing that it affects your chances of hooking up with hot women, should help you to want to overcome the fear of rejection.
Remember, just because rejection doesn’t feel nice, doesn’t mean that acting nice is going to avoid that feeling of rejection. In fact it’s making it more likely that you’ll get rejected, even if that kind of rejection is the easy way out.
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